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The World Calls Pain a Curse. The Gita Calls It Your Teacher
Times Life | August 29, 2025 12:39 AM CST

If you ask people what they fear most, many will say “suffering.” We pray to be spared from pain, we look for shortcuts around it, we even treat it like some kind of punishment. But the Bhagavad Gita quietly turns this thinking on its head: pain is not a curse, it is your teacher. It does not come to destroy you. It comes to awaken you.

Pain Shows You the TruthMost of us live under illusions, thinking things will last forever, that people will never leave, that success will always stay. Pain is what breaks those illusions. The heartbreak that makes you realize love cannot be forced. The failure that teaches you you’re not in full control.
The loss that reminds you that nothing in this world is truly permanent. The Gita says the wise person sees the temporary as temporary. Pain is the lesson that forces us to finally see this truth.

Pain Grounds You in HumilityWhen life is smooth, we often think we are invincible. We believe our plans alone shape reality. Then, pain enters. A rejection, an illness, a loss, it humbles us. It reminds us that we are human, not gods.
That control is limited, and pride is fragile. The Gita teaches steadiness in both joy and sorrow. Pain is not against that teaching, it is the very training ground for it.

Pain Burns Away What Is ShallowNot every desire we hold is worth chasing. Many of them keep us restless, running in circles. Pain acts like fire, it burns away the shallow cravings. When you don’t get what you wanted, when comfort slips out of reach, it hurts. But slowly, it points you toward something deeper: happiness that does not depend on outside circumstances.
This is the Gita’s wisdom, lasting peace does not come from possessions or praise, but from anchoring within. Pain is what pushes us toward that discovery.

Pain Opens the HeartThere is something pain does that comfort never can, it makes us compassionate. When you have suffered, you stop judging others so easily. You see their struggles with softer eyes. You know the weight of invisible battles. The Gita says the yogi sees all beings equally. Pain is often what opens the door to that vision.
The deepest teaching of the Gita is that you are not just this body, or this passing story. You are something eternal. Pain constantly whispers this truth. Every loss, every ache, every grief points to one lesson: do not mistake the temporary for the eternal. And if you listen closely, pain is not just sorrow, it is a guide toward liberation.

A Shift in How We SeeThe world will always label pain as a curse. But you have a choice. You can see it the way the Gita asks you to: as a teacher, even a gift. You don’t have to like it. You don’t have to ask for it. But you can learn from it. The next time you face pain, don’t rush to escape it. Pause. Ask quietly: “What is this here to teach me?”
Because every wound carries wisdom. And sometimes, the lessons that hurt the most are the ones that shape us the most.


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