These increasing incidents in the society have shocked every married couple. The elders of the family are also surprised and upset to see these conditions. A question has also come in front of Premanand Maharaj of Vrindavan. Somebody asked Maharaj that my spouse has an illicit relationship with someone, what should I do? Maharaj has answered this question in detail.
Premanand Maharaj said that for what reasons the spouse has been seduced, understand those situations. It is important to understand the mental, emotional and physical needs of the spouse. Clean them from the point of view of religion. For example, if any body part is rotted, first medicine is given, then the operation or cutting it is decided. Maharaj also said that even if the life partner is immersed in pramad even after explaining lakhs, then the path of religion should be adopted. Following religious dignity, the system given by the government can be adopted.
Maharaj said that under any circumstances, it is a sin to resort to violence, abusive or torture. It is not only illegal, but also drops your religion and effort. It is not the path of a gentleman to answer sin from sin. But if the spouse really regrets and says that it will not be such a mistake now. If I will purify my mind with bhajan and practice, then from that day it will be considered as Bhagavat refuge. Then the husband should not torture her by remembering the old defects. Rather, the spouse should carry forward with love, familiarity and true cooperation. There is so much power in love that he can make the impure even pure.
Name-chanting influence
Maharaj said that purification of religion against religion is possible with name-chanting and satsang. Regret on the previous mistake and the resolution for the future becomes pure in the eyes of God. These things apply equally to both men and women. If anyone betrays his spouse, then he insults religion, love and purity.
In such a situation, first be pure yourself and explain the spouse with love. For this, there is a need to try again and again. But if the border is crossed, then the path of religion should be chosen. If the spouse improves, then forget the old things and adopt it.
Immense power in love
Maharaj said that love has a lot of power. The love that is tied in God's dignity can make life successful. Every person should understand this, who has stumbled in relationships and who still wants to live religion.
