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Shady bridesmaid leaked bride’s seating chart with nasty notes
Sandy Verma | September 17, 2025 9:24 PM CST

This bride’s feet are being held to the fire — and her pal’s the object of her ire.

Bridesmaids are meant to serve — not shaft — the woman-of-honor on her big day.

But one bridal party member has savagely betrayed a bride-to-be, “accidentally” leaking the very honest, not-so-nice notes she’d written about her wedding guests all over social media.

“I’m getting married in November, and like most brides, I put way too much thought into the seating chart,” confessed the anonymous nearly-wed on Reddit. “I wanted to keep certain family members apart (long story, but my uncle and cousin haven’t spoken in years) and I didn’t want exes sitting anywhere near each other.”

This is a nightmare situation for any bride in the midst of wedding planning. Make_story Studio – stock.adobe.com

She went on to explain that a buttinsky bridesmaid — whom she referred to as “S” — begged for a screenshot of the seating chart, which came inked with a few not-so-nice thoughts about the invitees and their kinks and quirks.

“Fast forward to last week, someone from my fiancé’s side messages me saying, ‘Hey, I heard we’re at the boring table in the back?’” wrote the bride. “I was confused until I realized the exact seating chart (with my handwritten notes) had been posted in a private Facebook group that S runs.”

“And here’s the kicker: the chart wasn’t just posted…my notes were included,” she added. “Notes like, ‘Keep cousin Amy far from ex-BF,’ and ‘Don’t put Aunt Linda near the open bar.’ Stuff that was never meant for public eyes.”

The unnamed, shady bridesmaid shared the bride’s seating chart with approximately 80 people on Facebook. WavebreakMediaMicro – stock.adobe.com

And now, the gal’s goof has the bride seeing red.

“When I confronted her, she swore it was an accident, that she, ‘Meant to screenshot it for herself,’ but somehow uploaded it to her group of 80+ people?? Yeah, right,” the soon-to-wed scoffed. “Now I’ve got people salty about where they’re sitting, and I’m redoing the entire layout two months before the wedding.”

“My fiancé wants me to cut her from the wedding party, but I’m torn.”

Unflinching folks online, however, firmly agree with her hubby-to-be.

The bride claims that her wedding guests are now “salty” and offended by the comments and seating arrangements she’s made. fizkes – stock.adobe.com

“I would remove her from the wedding party and uninvite her. I would have also let her know that our friendship is over,” spat a cross commenter.

“That was clearly malicious. Why would you want to keep her at your wedding or as a friend?,” another questioned.

“She’s already trying to ruin their big expensive wedding for a little bit of entertainment,” warned an equally peeved onlooker. “This b—h is toxic. She will do worse the day of.”

Suspicious skeptics on social media accused the bridesmaid of attempting to “ruin” the bride’s big day by exposing her private notes. MUSONOK – Stock.adobe.com

And while this bride’s pre-nuptial nightmare is a sticky situation, it’s far from the first — or most egregious — offense made by a boneheaded bridesmaid.

One newlywed was shocked to find that a friend had been groping her groom’s genitals during their wedding party photoshoot. Another wolf-in-sheep’s clothing bailed on the bride ahead of her destination wedding, but still took the trip as a romantic getaway with her boyfriend.

But bridesmaids aren’t the only ones guilty of sabotaging a chum’s special day.

Brian White, the best man at his buddy’s wedding, proclaimed his undying love for the bride, Desiree, during the ceremony — and actually stole her heart.

“He said, ‘I remember the first moment I saw Desiree, I loved her. I fell in love with her. I knew she had to be mine. I thought she was the most beautiful person I’d ever seen in my life,” Desiree recently recalled of Brian’s speech at her ill-fated 2010 matrimony to her now ex-husband.

She and Brian ultimately tied the knot in 2012.

“We were always friends but when we were together [romantically],” said Desiree, “it was like nothing was hard to do anymore knowing we had each other.”


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