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Handle Child during Intimacy: Every couple has some personal moments which get disrupted a bit after becoming parents. The difficulty for any couple after becoming parents increases when the child suddenly wakes up or comes into the room during their intimacy. Most of the time, in such a situation, parents get nervous and start scolding their children to handle the situation in a panic. In this situation, scolding children is not the solution. Let us know in this article, what to do if you face this situation.

Avoid this kind of situation

If you are a parent and want to spend me time or romantic time with your partner and you do not want to face any uncomfortable situations, then your first step should be to prevent such situations from happening. For this you can pay attention to some special things.

Make sure your baby is in deep sleep before intimacy. If the child is above 3 years then try to use another room for intimacy. If you do not have the option of another bedroom, the child is in your bedroom, then pay attention before intimacy.

There should be very dim lighting in the room, so that even if the child wakes up, you can easily handle the situation.
At the time of intimacy, you must have an open sheet, so that you can cover yourself if the baby wakes up.

These are small things by keeping in mind that you can avoid reading in an uncomfortable situation.

What to do if baby wakes up during intimacy

We talked about avoiding the situation above, if you ever face such an uncomfortable situation then what can you do, let us know.

If the child suddenly wakes up during intimacy or comes into the room, then first of all you should not panic or scream. Neither should the child be scolded or beaten.
Because at this time the child may be half asleep and may not be understanding things. But your scolding or shouting may make him active and pay attention to the situation.

If the children suddenly wake up, keep yourself calm and immediately try to put them to sleep. If they want to say something, tell them, son/daughter, it is too late in the night, go to sleep, we will talk in the morning.

If the child remembers what happened at night and asks you something or insists on asking it at night itself, then instead of scolding him, explain it lovingly.

Answer all the questions of children according to their age.
If the child is younger than 10 years and does not understand sexual activities, then tell him, son, parents were hugging each other and talking a little, this is none of your business, go to sleep.
If the child is old enough to understand sexual activity, then tell him that son, mother and father are husband and wife, there are some personal talks between them which happen only between adults. You have now become wise enough to tell you that you should respect our personal space.

Teach children to respect personal space

Teach children to respect others’ personal space by working on the possibility of a mistake not happening before it happens. For this you can teach the rules of door knock to the children. You can tell them that entering someone’s room without permission is wrong. Door knock rules, or asking to enter the house, can create family rules that apply to both elders and children alike.