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For the first time in her 30 years of married life, a woman felt such a shock, which turned her entire life upside down in an instant. She thought that her marriage life was quite stable and happy, but one night everything fell apart when her husband confessed a very big and hidden thing to her. He felt completely broken and started feeling very dirty and worthless. The woman shared her ordeal by writing in a famous advice column (agony aunt column) of ‘Mirror newspaper’.

She told that her husband has been secretly addicted to a wrong and strange habit for many years. That habit was to steal used underwear (panties) from his female relatives (like sister, sister-in-law, cousin etc.) and close friends. The husband openly confessed that he used to go to these people’s houses and secretly steal their dirty panties and then use them to fulfill his sexual desires.

Steals panties from female relatives

The woman wrote that she already knew that her husband finds dirty used underwear very attractive and that he sometimes satisfies himself with it. She was not bothered by this because it was just a personal matter between them. But when it came to light that it was not just limited to her own panties, but she was also stealing others, including family and friends, it was a big shock for her. She said, ‘I have been with him for 30 years and I thought I knew him well. Our relationship is strong, but after hearing this revelation I felt that my entire trust was broken. I feel unsafe now. I feel disgusted, the pain of betrayal and feel that I am lacking somewhere in myself. What has happened to my husband? How can all this happen?’

This is like breaking trust

In the advice column, experts (agony aunt) talked about this matter very seriously. He said that this is not a small matter. This is not just a matter of breaking the trust between husband and wife, but it is also a very serious crime because there has been a huge violation of the privacy of others. Stealing things from relatives and friends is theft. Using used clothes in this way is very insulting and disturbing to many people. If those women came to know that their clothes were stolen and what was done to them, they would be very hurt and angry.

This is a legal violation

Experts advised the woman that this situation is not at all normal. He should not try to handle it alone. Help should be sought immediately from a professional counselor or therapist. This is important not just for him, but for the entire relationship and mental health. Also, if she wants, she can take legal advice, because this is both theft and violation of privacy.