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In an age of endless swiping and situationships, young Indians are turning to clarity in romance — the sunset clause. A recent survey by a dating app shows that a growing number of users are agreeing upfront on how long they want to date before deciding the future of a relationship. The idea is simple: set a time frame, check emotional compatibility , and avoid months of uncertainty.

Pune-based Anjali (27) said, “This year, I have decided to try online dating for six months. I think it will give me a sense of purpose, and the deadline would be good for someone like me who doomscrolls even on dating apps.” For many daters like Anjali, the sunset clause is about intention. “People don’t want to invest years without knowing where things are headed,” the dating app survey notes, especially in cities where career moves, relocation, and marriage expectations often shape dating choices.

What ‘sunset clause’ means

A ‘sunset clause’ in dating is a mutual understanding between two people to reassess their relationship after a fixed time. Instead of drifting in uncertainty, couples agree to pause, reflect, and decide whether to commit, continue casually, or walk away.

Borrowed from legal language, the idea brings structure to modern romance , giving daters clarity while testing emotional compatibility before making long-term promises.

- 37% of daters from metros and suburbs are adopting the "sunset clause" in their dating lives to ensure their romantic pursuits do not drag on for ages.

- Nearly 28% of survey participants said that having a clear exit plan helped them form quicker and more meaningful connections.

( as per a recent survey by QuackQuack )

From casual to conscious dating

Relationship experts say the trend reflects emotional self-awareness rather than detachment. Clear timelines can reduce anxiety, mismatched expectations and the fear of being ‘led on’.

Ravi Mittal, founder of QuackQuack, says, “We’ve seen users become far more intentional since 2024, and we expect this to peak this year. Young daters are doing regular check-ins, recognising when a match isn’t going anywhere and changing course through deeper introspection. Compatibility today goes beyond shared hobbies and values.”

Chandni Gaglani , head of Aisle, adds, “The Commitment Decade report shows India has entered a new phase of dating, driven by emotional intention, mental health and long-term compatibility rather than impulse. Nearly 90% of Indians now prioritise meaningful relationships, while one in four has consciously reduced casual dating. This reflects a real shift in behaviour, not just sentiment.”

Can dating deadlines backfire?

Experts caution that time-bound dating can help people avoid situationships, but only under certain conditions. They note that entering dating with clear intent but low confidence or fear can lead to rushed decisions and poor judgement. “When clarity is missing, choices are often driven by urgency rather than alignment, which is where regret begins,” says Shalini Singh, founder of andwemet, a dating app community, adding that while timelines can offer structure and prevent emotional drift, without self-work or dating guidance they may add pressure rather than clarity.

"Setting relationship timelines often comes from fear, not a lack of emotional maturity. When confidence is low and past hurt lingers, deadlines feel like protection. Guidance can reduce damage, but true self-trust rarely needs rigid timelines — uncertainty exists either way," - Shalini Singh, founder of a dating app community