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Husband Wants Poly Relationship: Many times it happens that we are not able to understand our feelings for years, but when we do, there is chaos in the family. When a husband admitted that he was polygamous, the wife was shaken. It was no less than a shock for her to hear this from her husband after 15 years of marriage. The woman herself has shared her story on Reddit. Let us tell you his pain.

The 43 year old woman wrote that it has been 15 years since she was married. She has two children with her 46 year old husband. Like every marriage, there were ups and downs in their relationship, but she always kept herself committed and royal towards her husband. Everything was going well, then suddenly one day the husband said that he was polygamous. He said that he has always felt this way and being monogamous is difficult for him. He explained that it is like a boiling kettle, in which there is no way for steam to come out. If they cannot experience love and relationships with more than one person, they will explode. I was completely heartbroken after hearing this.

Polyamory Shock: When the husband had already prepared the date

I controlled myself. I love my husband and children very much, so I thought I would let them do as they please. I said that I am ready to learn and understand about it. What was surprising was that without giving any time he told that he had already found a woman for this. That woman was our neighbour. Divorced and 11 years younger. Both of them used to meet and talk at the bus stop.

Husband said there will be no boundaries in Poly

I told my husband that I need time, there will be some basic boundaries. So that I don't have an emotional breakdown, but my husband said that there will be no boundaries with Polly, because she wants complete freedom. I still agreed and met the woman for coffee. But I could not have a proper conversation and my husband became angry.

I myself retreated

Despite this, I controlled myself considering my husband's mental health, but I was surprised when the woman started ignoring me in a public place. She took care of my husband but there was a problem because he was married. This was a red flag for me. I thought that this way my marriage would break. When I told my husband that I am not comfortable in this relationship, he said that it is okay, we will delete his number and will not talk to him.

Got another shock while checking phone

But he did not fulfill the promise he made to me. Both of them used to meet at the bus stop and used to return home late. One day I checked his mobile and found that he was in constant touch with that woman. Kept deleting messages so that I don't know. When I asked, he lied. He said that you hid it so that you would not harm that woman. I am not able to understand what to do due to such reaction of my husband.

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people's opinion on reddit

Most people believe that this is not real polyamory but cheating with excuse or “poly bombing”, in which the relationship is being changed without proper consent. They are calling the husband's behavior manipulative, double standard and full of red flags, especially when the wife is not being given freedom. Many people say that this can break a marriage and that the wife deserves better respect and honesty.

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