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To maintain a marriage relationship, both love and compromise are necessary. But if the relationship depends only on one person, then it becomes difficult for it to last long. This story is its hallmark. A 34-year-old woman has shown a picture of her married life on Reddit and said that even though her husband loves her very much, she wants to get a divorce. You might be surprised after reading this, but the pain that the woman has gone through is forcing her to take such steps. So let us tell you the whole story.

The woman writes that we met on Tinder 11 years ago. Our relationship started after we met. After a year of being in a relationship he told me that I was fatter than my pictures. Even after this, he criticized my body many times. Especially regarding my stomach. When I became pregnant for the first time, he started worrying that I might never be able to stay fit again. We have two children, ages 4 and 3.

His behavior changed after losing weight

Two years ago I lost about 80 pounds (36 kg) and have maintained it since then. My husband himself is overweight, but it never made any difference to me. I love them the same in any size. But as soon as I lost weight, my husband's behavior changed. He gives me compliments again and again. Want to be close to me. Not only this, he has also increased my personal expenses. But I don't like all this. It seems like he just loves my body.

Another incident I could not forget

The second incident happened when our first child was 6 months old. He was sitting in a high chair and suddenly he leaned forward and fell along with the chair. I immediately took him to the hospital and he was fine, only his lip was cut. That day my husband told me a lot. Even after four years, I get scared when I think that if any major accident ever happens to the children and they are under my supervision, they might not support me. I want to separate from him.

Still, it is not easy to leave a relationship

The problem is that in other respects he is a very nice person. He is a great father, takes good care of the family and I feel safe with him. He's funny, kind, and a good partner in many ways. But these two incidents are such that I am unable to forget them. I have talked to him about this and he has also apologized, but that is not enough for me. I don't understand whether I should get a divorce or not.

people's opinion

People have given their opinion on Reddit. Most people say that their husband's behavior is a red flag and they should leave the relationship. Many people also felt bad that you are not a child but that he gives you personal expenses. You deserve equal rights.

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