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While Mother’s Day is now widely associated with flowers, greeting cards, and gifts, the woman credited with founding the modern holiday reportedly became one of its strongest critics.

Anna Jarvis, who campaigned for the official recognition of Mother’s Day in the United States in the early 20th century, later expressed disappointment over how commercialised the occasion had become.

Historians note that Jarvis originally envisioned the day as a personal and emotional tribute to mothers — centred on gratitude, handwritten letters, and meaningful connection rather than expensive celebrations.

A holiday born from remembrance

Mother’s Day was officially recognised in the United States in 1914 after years of advocacy by Jarvis, who wanted to honour the sacrifices and care provided by mothers.

The idea was inspired partly by her own mother’s humanitarian and community work.

Over time, however, the holiday evolved into a major commercial event driven by retail marketing, restaurants, and gifting industries.

Founder opposed commercialisation

Historical accounts suggest Jarvis became deeply frustrated by the growing business around the holiday.

She reportedly criticised companies for profiting from emotional sentiment and believed that the original spirit of appreciation was being overshadowed by consumer culture.

Experts say her concerns remain relevant today as Mother’s Day campaigns become increasingly commercial and social media-driven.

Rethinking how the day is celebrated

Writers and historians now encourage people to use Mother’s Day as an opportunity to reflect on broader questions, including:

• How societies value caregiving
• Emotional labour within families
• Support systems for mothers
• Work-life balance and parenting pressures
• The meaning of gratitude beyond material gifts

Many also emphasise that meaningful gestures, conversations, and quality time can carry greater emotional value than expensive purchases.

Beyond flowers and celebrations

The history of Mother’s Day highlights how public observances can evolve over time, sometimes drifting away from their original purpose.

Experts say revisiting the roots of the holiday can encourage more thoughtful and authentic celebrations focused on appreciation, empathy, and human connection.