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Leaving a mess for someone else to deal with is the biggest trigger for kitchen bust-ups, according to new research. A poll of 2,000 adults found most couples have argued while cooking, with 44% saying minor disagreements in the kitchen can quickly escalate into a full-blown row.

Nearly half (47%) said they rarely or never cook with their partner, with top irritations including leaving dirty utensils to "soak", hovering while the other person cooks, and failing to wash up as you go.

A spokesperson for Circulon, which commissioned the research, said: "It's fascinating to see how passionate people get in the kitchen - even if it can end in a lover's tiff.

"The kitchen is one of the most shared spaces in a relationship, so it's no surprise it can become a pressure point when routines or standards don't align.

"Small habits, like leaving mess behind or getting in each other's way, can quickly turn everyday cooking into a source of tension."

Cooking turns out to be part of people's relationships, as 78% of participants said they take pride in cooking for their partners.

Meanwhile, 28% said being experimental in the kitchen is a 'sexy' trait. Roast dinners topped the list of dishes people find most attractive when cooked for by a partner, followed by a steak dish, and curry.

Conversely, the biggest food red flags are poor hygiene, leaving the kitchen in a mess and serving food cold when it should be hot.

As such, having more counter and storage space were listed as the most effective ways of reducing tension in the kitchen.

More than six in 10 agreed quality cookware has a big impact on their overall cooking experience, according to figures from OnePoll.com.

A spokesperson for Circulon added: "What stands out is how quickly minor disagreements can escalate when people feel cramped, rushed or unsupported while cooking.

"Giving each other space, agreeing on simple routines and having equipment that you take pride in can make a real difference.

"For many couples, cooking is still an important way to show care and affection - it just works best when expectations are shared."

TOP 10 ARGUMENT STARTERS IN THE KITCHEN

1. Leaving mess for someone else to deal with later

2. Not cleaning as you go

3. Someone "hovering" or supervising while the other is cooking

4. Different standards of cleanliness

5. Leaving dirty utensils or pans to "soak"

6. Arguments over timing or multitasking

7. Someone trying to take over

8. Having to clean their pans the day afterwards

9. Not leaving enough space because of pots and pans being everywhere

10. Not following food hygiene rules