A recruiter recently faced intense criticism on the subreddit LinkedIn Lunatics after sharing a controversial hiring experience. The talent acquisition specialist had taken to LinkedIn to recount why she rejected a candidate who otherwise seemed ideal. According to her post, the applicant possessed an impressive resume, answered all questions confidently, and had strong technical skills—but leaned too close to the camera during the virtual interview. This single act, she claimed, made her lose interest in hiring him.
She further elaborated that while the candidate’s qualifications were solid, his behavior gave off an air of desperation. The recruiter emphasized that hiring professionals can often sense neediness, suggesting that job seekers should appear inquisitive and self-assured rather than desperate. Her concluding remark encouraged confidence over anxiety, implying that one’s “vibe” can overshadow even the most polished resume.
“Great resume. Solid skills. But the vibe? Pure desperation!” she said. “Show up curious, not desperate. Confidence is memorable. Neediness? Not so much..." she concluded.
Backlash From Reddit Users
Her post quickly made its way to LinkedIn Lunatics, where users condemned her remarks as elitist and insensitive. Many argued that such reasoning reflected poor hiring judgment rather than professionalism. One Reddit user pointed out that people using large-screen laptops or those with visual impairments often appear closer to the webcam unintentionally, criticizing the recruiter for overlooking such nuances. They accused her of using the post as clickbait rather than offering genuine insight into recruitment practices.
Another commenter sarcastically noted that a truly competent recruiter might have seen an advantage in hiring a highly skilled yet “desperate” candidate who could potentially accept a lower salary, rather than rejecting him over trivialities. Others mocked her for seeking online validation and misusing her professional platform.
Some users expressed frustration at how a minor display of enthusiasm could be misinterpreted as desperation. They remarked that even a small amount of authority seems to inflate certain recruiters’ egos. Following the widespread criticism, the recruiter eventually deleted her LinkedIn post, though screenshots continued to circulate across social media.
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She further elaborated that while the candidate’s qualifications were solid, his behavior gave off an air of desperation. The recruiter emphasized that hiring professionals can often sense neediness, suggesting that job seekers should appear inquisitive and self-assured rather than desperate. Her concluding remark encouraged confidence over anxiety, implying that one’s “vibe” can overshadow even the most polished resume.
“Great resume. Solid skills. But the vibe? Pure desperation!” she said. “Show up curious, not desperate. Confidence is memorable. Neediness? Not so much..." she concluded.
Backlash From Reddit Users
Her post quickly made its way to LinkedIn Lunatics, where users condemned her remarks as elitist and insensitive. Many argued that such reasoning reflected poor hiring judgment rather than professionalism. One Reddit user pointed out that people using large-screen laptops or those with visual impairments often appear closer to the webcam unintentionally, criticizing the recruiter for overlooking such nuances. They accused her of using the post as clickbait rather than offering genuine insight into recruitment practices.Another commenter sarcastically noted that a truly competent recruiter might have seen an advantage in hiring a highly skilled yet “desperate” candidate who could potentially accept a lower salary, rather than rejecting him over trivialities. Others mocked her for seeking online validation and misusing her professional platform.
Some users expressed frustration at how a minor display of enthusiasm could be misinterpreted as desperation. They remarked that even a small amount of authority seems to inflate certain recruiters’ egos. Following the widespread criticism, the recruiter eventually deleted her LinkedIn post, though screenshots continued to circulate across social media.
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